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Ciri2 Suami Aku Nak (versi idealistic)

Boleh jadi Imam
Amalkan pergi masjid
Solat cukup 5 waktu
Sedap suara time azan
Pandai tilawah
Pandai main alat muzik
Boleh nyanyi
Sedap mata memandang
Senyuman menawan
BMI seimbang
Takde penyakit yang boleh diwariskan kpd bakal anak2
Ade kerja tetap
Orang KL or Selangor
Ade kereta
Bercadang nak ada rumah sendiri
Pengasih
Tahu masak
Sedia menerima kekurangan diri
Pandai layan baby dan budak kecik
Tahu nak fit in dengan masyarakat
Rajin dan boleh diajak menziarah sanak saudara
Pandai buat lawak
Protective
Suke berbincang
Syg & bleh berkorban utk parents saya & die


Ciri2 Suami Aku Nak (versi realistic)

Solat cukup 5 waktu
At least pergi masjid time solat Jumaat, Raya, Terawikh, or maghrib time on weekend
Berpotensi untuk ajar bakal anak2 mengaji
Boleh sara hidup berkeluarga
Ade kereta
Tahu nak didik isteri dengan hikmah
Takde penyakit yang boleh tersebar melalui hubungan suami isteri
At least sudi ketawa bila dengar lawak aku
Suka berbincang
Rajin dan boleh diajak menziarah sanak saudara
Syg & bleh berkorban utk parents saya & die

Yeah.... That was before 'something happen'.

Currently the most prominent characteristic he must posses is patience/sabar.

I'm looking for someone who gonna patiently wait.
Wait while i slowly juggle my life-affair, family-affair, career-affair, finance-affair.
More importantly he'll wait untill my mom give the greenlight.

Before 'something happen' i really dont really know my mom. Thanks to this 'something happen' I know what it takes to get mom's greenlight.

Patient to wait while I raise my own fund for my wedding that my mom's has everything imagined.

So, if the guy can't be patient, we can't be together.

*New additional point
Must be someone that will respect my family. I know my family will commit wrong but he's must be someone who sill can respect them.

Yeah. People can say u gonna be andartu what so ever but my mom dont give a damn about it. So,

Till I find someone like that. Anyeong!

The courage that I don't have

Or because I actually seen the after-damage when things fell apart.

Ditegur (The warning)

Since I get my holiday, I've been lazy around ALOT. I got up for fajr at 6.45am.
For the record, I woke up at 6.00am if I need to attend class in the morning.

So the 'subuh gajah' continue for almost a month. Usually I get to do that only on weekend.

So, one fine day, I lost my IC card and license. After done the police report, I went to renew my IC.
Guess what? been charged for RM110 for that.

So, morning prayer is synonym with the door of rezeki.
There goes my RM110 rezeki due to delaying my solat.

Plus, Azan is a call for success right?
Guess what? I need to postpone my driving test due to the lost. See my success been postponed?

I believe all these happened due to my 'subuh gajah' habit.
Allah trying to correct me someway.

Astgahfirullah alazim. I repent to you Allah. Forgive me.
I will try to get up earlier.
*set alarm at 6.30*
It's a start. I better take it slowly or else, everything will go wrong.

till then. jaga solat.

Song and the story behind

But piece by piece he collected me
Up off the ground but you abandoned things
And piece by piece he filled the holes that you burned in me
At six years old and you know
He never walks away
He never asks for money
He takes care of me
He loves me
Piece by piece
He restored my faith
That a man can be kind
And a father could stay

- piece by piece, Kelly Clarkson

"I hope that one day I would find the 'he' that also will restore my faith of a man called father"

P/s: Happy married life my dustbin. I hope Mr. F gonna take good care of you as much as your father cherish you. 

Sakinah mawadah wa rahmah

Ulangkaji Topik: Warga Tua

Menurut World Health Organization (WHO), warga tua adalah individu yang berusia 60 tahun ke atas. Walau bagaimana pun, Malaysia meletakkan individu berumur 65 tahun ke atas dalam lingkungan warga tua.  Sebenarnya, definisi warga tua di setiap negara kadang2 berbeza mengikut cara hidup tempat masing2.

Hal ini, kerana di jepun warga tuanya mampu hidup sehingga 86 tahun. Malaysia sendiri dalam lingkungan 72 hingga 74 tahun dan negara2 bergolak atau mundur warga tua lazimnya hidup bawah 50 tahun. Meskipun begitu, di setiap negara perempuan dipercayai hidup lebih lama berbanding lelaki. 

"Women rules!!"

#eh

Dalam subjek ini, pensyarah selalu merujuk negara jepun dan singapura. Mungkin sebab 2 negara dalam lingkungan Asia dan lebih dekat dengan Malaysia. Oh ya! Jepun dan Singapura adalah negara yang ramai warga tuanya. Sebenarnya ada banyak lagi negara warga tua tinggi lain seperti Finland, Sweden, dll.

Negara berpopulasi tua tinggi. Dilorek dengan merah

Peta dunia

Definisi "aging/ageing" penuaan menurut WHO.

A biological reality which has its own dynamic, largely beyond human control. 

The loss of roles accompanying physical decline which is significant in defining old age.

Active contribution is no longer possible.

Kejadian biologikal yang berlaku secara dinamik, disebabkan peredaran waktu dan tidak dapat dihentikan oleh manusia.

Individu yang kehilangan peranan dalam masyarakat diikuti dengan kemerosotan kebolehan fizikal.

Akhirnya, sumbangan kepada maysarakat semakin berkurang dan tidak boleh aktif seperti sebelumnya.

Cuba check diri sendiri kot2 ade sifat2 ini. hehehe
'Tengah berfikir nak tulis pasal teori penuaan secara mudah'

Faktor yang menyumbang kepada survival warga tua di negara adalah:
1. Kadar kematian berkurangan
2. Kadar kelahiran berkkurangan
3. Migrasi penduduk
!Fakta menarik.
Kedatangan imigrant yang selalunya berusia 15-40 tahun mampu menyeimbangkan demogrfi mengikut usia populasi.

Mengapa pentingnya mengawal peratusan populasi warga tua? Berikut adalah kesan-kesan peningkatan warga tua di sesebuah negara.
1. Perkhidmatan perubatan akan lebih banyak mengendalikan kes penyakit kronik berbanding penyakit 'acute'.
2. Penurunan populasi 'working-age' dalam negara berikutan peningkatan populasi pesara.
3. Peningkatan keperluan klinik daerah di luar bamdar.
4. Peningkatan rumah orang tua serta penghuninya.
5. Warga tua tersisih dari arus pemodenan.
6. Penigkatan tahap kebergantungan warga tua  kepada masyarakat.
Akan disambung....

Thing that I really do not want to happen.

This blog has long been abandoned and looks like the writer has almost forgot it's main purpose. Which. To talk about things that occurs that triggers the thinking head. (Read: fikiran tatkala kejadian). 

So, back to the square one. My first ever semester break after 2 years of studying health science was occupied by me watching tv. 

(I just feel my precious nap time getting wasted being outside of the house).

So, here the piece that starts to kick my mind to write again.

Greys Anatomy Season 2 Episode: Tell Me Sweet Little Lies.

To be fair, I'm not telling the whole episode synopsis here, I'm going straight to the scene that causes me to think.

There's Sophie,  she had hip replacement surgery a month ago and was discharged from hospital but refuse to go.

And.

Sophie excuse to not leaving is to wait until her daughter finished setting Sophie's room at the daughter house which non exist.

Sadly, her daughter has plan her to stay at Sugar Maple Nursing Home. 

There's Malay quote saying, one mother could nurture 10 children but the children won't guarantee to be able to take care of one mom when she's old.

I used to help in hospital, and I read numbers of patients bed ticket which address to nursing home.

The children are there. I see they could afford people to take care of their mom instead. They're busy. Visit their mom only for 10min/day and after their mom had recover, return the mom to nursing home.

The old-man doesn't like it. They rather be at home alone than any nursing home. They rather stay with the child even the way the child take care of them is harsh compared to a nurse. Let them stay with us. Even there's no enough room in our house. Let them stay with us, even if we don't have the 24/7 time to spend for them. 

I pray really hard to Allah, that He won't give me such a brutal heart to let my mom being sent to nursing home. I hope my siblings wont mind to take turn to take care of my mom. She's our mom. Even I'm the daughter doesn't make sons to be free from responsible.

For the time being. I'm praying for my mom's good health. Love you mom.

Insan Berjasa

8 Ramadhan lalu

Telah pergi seorang sosok laki2 yang telah banyak menabur budi buatku...

Menemuinya sang pencipta...

Tidakku sangka begitu singkat masa ku bersamanya...

Jasanya masih tidak sempat ku balas...

Padanya aku menumpang kasih seorang bapa dek kesibukan dan kealpaan bapaku...

Teringat saban waktu menjemputku pulang dari sekolah, tidak dilupa membeli keledek goreng kegemaranku...

Tidak pernah gagal menghadirkan diri untuk mengambil buku laporan akademik ku menggantikan orang tuaku...

Tatkala ku dewasa, ternanti-nanti kepulanganku yang sibuk mengejar cita-cita...

Dikaitkan buah mangga di pohon belakang rumahnya, dan siap dikupas khas buatku...

Tatkala menziarahnya ketika keuzurannya melanda, kelihatan badannya yang semakin cengkung tidak berdaya...

Semasa kecilku, terngiang-ngiang alunan iqamat, ayat suci al-Quran dan zikrullah seusai dia solat...

Ya Allah, jauhkan hambamu itu dari segala azab kubur dan azab akhiratmu...

Kau lapangkan, terangkan dan harumkan kuburnya Ya Allah..


Ya Rasullullah, berikan dia syafaat...

Semoga roh mu tenang di sana...
Ayah long...

Kerana dia bapaku yang tidak bertalian darah...

Sungguh aku kasih padanya...

Al-Fatihah